Everything you might be wondering.

Professional cuddling implies real training — in consent, emotional regulation, and holding a safe, nurturing space. Just like massage therapy or coaching, it requires certification and standards to uphold. I'm a Certified Cuddlist, and I bring a lifetime of experience working with energy, including training in Reiki and other energy work modalities. What happens in a session is somatic — mind, body, and energy together — and that experience is part of how I hold the space and support what you're working through.

Yes! As long as you're 18 or older and ready to honor the Code of Conduct, there's a place for you here.

An erection happens — that's natural, and cuddling is a very intimate interaction, so arousal is normal on both sides. The point is to meet it with equanimity and let it pass, not make it a bigger moment than it is. If it turns into rubbing or actively building on it, that's a different story, and we'd simply shift position so it's not against me.

Not everyone finds it easy to speak up in the moment, and that's completely okay — this space is exactly where you get to practice it. If something feels off, or you'd like to pause or end the session, just say so. Every boundary you voice here is honored, and this is a safe place to build that muscle.

You can ask — this is a space for you to share, and there's zero judgment here. That said, this is a platonic cuddling container, so I don't offer sexual, non-platonic, erotic, or fetish services, even if additional payment is offered.

Sessions I host take place in my own apartment, a calming, cozy space with a comfortable pullout sofa and a memory-foam mattress. In warmer months, we also have the option to cuddle outside — sunset cuddles are especially lovely. Outcalls are possible too, though a travel donation applies and there's a minimum number of hours — more on that below.

Yes! Virtual sessions are available through the booking app's video call, Zoom, Snapchat, or Telegram — whichever works best for you. Pricing is the same as an in-person session.

Yes, if I have availability and you give me enough advance notice.

Sometimes! If I don't have another client scheduled right after yours, we can absolutely extend the cuddle — just ask and we'll see what's possible.

Yes — outcalls to Bergen, Essex, or Union County NJ, or Manhattan, have a 2-hour minimum. Outcalls to Brooklyn, Queens, Westchester, Rockland, Fairfield County CT, or Philadelphia have a 3-hour minimum plus a $120 transportation donation. Outcalls must be paid for in advance, and for outcalls or tour cuddles away from my home, new clients are required to pay a non-refundable deposit to secure the booking.

Sessions start at $160 per hour, with discounted rates for bookings of 5 hours or more. You'll see exact pricing and current packages when you book on Bookme.com.

Sessions run a minimum of one hour, and you're welcome to book longer from there — discounted rates kick in at 5 hours or more.

I accept cash, Cash App, and Venmo — cash is preferred, but any of the three works. Payment is expected before the session begins.

Yes — multi-hour packages start at 5 hours. The 7-hour package is built specifically for clients traveling longer distances, giving you time to sleep for a couple of hours before getting back on the road. There are also 8-, 10-, and 24-hour packages, each offering deeper discounts the longer you book. You'll see exact package pricing when you book on Bookme.com.

Freshly laundered t-shirt and shorts, or pajama pants.

We'll start by reviewing boundaries, preferences, and intentions together. Sessions take place on my comfortable pullout sofa with its memory-foam mattress, or outside in warmer months for sunset cuddles — calming and cozy, with soft lighting and music if you'd like. This time is yours: sessions can include cuddling in various positions, talking, holding hands, watching a movie, reading aloud, sharing a meal, eye gazing, light massage, gentle stretching, listening to music, taking a walk, or simply being present together. If there's something specific you'd like to do, just share it with me — as long as it's within the boundaries of the Code of Conduct, I'd love to make it happen.

Yes — I have a dog and a cat. My dog would love to join the cuddle if you're comfortable with that; if not, no worries, she'll stay on her bed. My cat, Meow, makes the occasional cameo, but that's rare.

Life happens — you can absolutely cancel, no judgment. Just let me know at least 24 hours in advance via call, text, email, or the link in your confirmation email. Late cancellations incur the full session fee, which may be credited toward a future session. No-shows without payment may be blocked from booking in future. If you cancel twice, I'll require non-refundable pre-payment for any future bookings.

Yes — crying is natural and part of the healing process. It's an honor to me that you'd allow me to be there for you and that you feel safe enough to experience your raw emotions. This is a sacred space.

You can ask, of course. My normal attire is a very soft pajama set. Keep in mind that this is a platonic space, so I keep things modest and don't show much skin — it helps keep the connection grounded rather than stirring up more of the feelings that this kind of closeness can naturally bring up. But if you have a color request or something specific in mind, feel free to ask.

I have a heightened sense of smell, so before our cuddle session, I respectfully ask that you: shower with soap, brush your teeth and gargle, and wear freshly laundered clothing. Cologne is totally welcome — I love a nice fragrance! I also keep deodorant, mouthwash, and a few men's fragrances in the spare bathroom, so feel free to freshen up with those if it's helpful. I'd also ask that you refrain from smoking or drinking alcohol beforehand.

Completely — what happens in a session is discreet and stays between us. This is a safe space in the world, and that is crucial to our container and the connection that we build and maintain.